tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1860123902902527642.post5894567962600329343..comments2024-03-24T05:21:35.370-04:00Comments on Todd Wright Now: Use Daily Affirmations to Strengthen Self-ConfidenceTodd Wrighthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17618731415750572865noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1860123902902527642.post-49962553958325230152012-12-27T15:51:16.860-05:002012-12-27T15:51:16.860-05:00Affirmations are great. But the issue may be a foc...Affirmations are great. But the issue may be a focus that is outside of "the Now." Why focus on outcomes? Focus on what is here and now. This is a difficult habit to get into for most people, because most people have been in the habit of either focusing on the past or on the future, which don't really exist. Only "the Now" is real.<br /><br />Might I recommend 'The Power of Now" which is reprinted in full on this blog, listed above under the Life Coaching Library? It has done me a lot of good. Perhaps it will help you too.Todd Wrighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17618731415750572865noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1860123902902527642.post-6991715644901614592012-12-27T15:10:31.253-05:002012-12-27T15:10:31.253-05:00I can say with total certainty that this works. I ...I can say with total certainty that this works. I have'nt been using autosuggesstions in around 2 months and the result has been staggering. I have to say that I feel terrible. lol. <br /><br />I can say that with a smile because I can create a list of autosuggesstions right now and fix the situation but it's important to realize the role that it plays. If I told you my story, where I am right now you would think it wasn't so bad. But when I tell it to myself It's magnified times a hundred. I'm 30, I've never been in trouble or anything, but I have low self-esteem because I was born with a standing IQ of 132. Since then It's risen and risen. <br /><br />The problem is that when you can see things to their endpoint, you don't really want to get to the end. The end seems boring. Now connect that to an everyday thing. A friendly conversation at work, college coursework, dating, paying bills. When you make the connection everything has the same boring end. You end right back where you begin, in fact in most of these cases you may lose more than you gain... <br /><br />coursework=college degree=good job=interested women=house,car,kids,dog,marriage=stagnant life with no escape. <br /><br />so coursework=stagnant life with no escape. <br /><br />In fact most things have this outcome, so I only pursue things that have either a ridiculously high outcome, or an end that I can't see... Multibillionaire... World Leader...<br /><br />Not to say that these are bad goals at all, but I can't deny that if you don't focus on the rent today and conquering the world next week... you lose your living space. <br /><br />I'm rambling a little.<br /><br />So, bordem with an outcome means that you don't really care about the work. That goes for conversations, and everything else. And when you don't engage people they develop some very shallow views about you. You don't engage me (because I'm so great), so you can't. People begin to think that you're stupid. Ironic. Unfortunatley when you don't have a college diploma, and you don't care about things you have to work with the bottom of society... and in the ghetto you don't need to be better than someone, you just need to point and laugh... (I'm getting to the point) This can damage a persons self esteem, especially if it happens again and again. And here we are... <br /><br />I figure (1)1 week of autosuggestions, (2)hiring a referance company to say that I've been a accounts receivable clerk for the last 5 years. (3)studying accounting for 2 months and (4)creating a polished resume. Will all be enough to get me back on track. Then purchasing houses. Then learning german, french and italian, Then moving to Switzerland (I hate NY) and purchasing for a passive income is a good 5-year plan. <br /><br />It feels good to write this down. Thank You. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1860123902902527642.post-42477348759142453062012-11-14T10:36:08.770-05:002012-11-14T10:36:08.770-05:00Thanks so much for the comment!Thanks so much for the comment!Todd Wrighthttp://toddwrightnow.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1860123902902527642.post-39405650260763474202012-11-14T08:17:09.991-05:002012-11-14T08:17:09.991-05:00Affirmations do work.It's a long hard slog but...Affirmations do work.It's a long hard slog but they will benefit you in amazing ways.I'm living proof.Great article! Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com